My sister

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Redefined
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Re: My sister

Post by Redefined »

I've tried to post this 3 times. Maybe a4th will work.
Il make it short
4 of us sisters were together & after the 4th got there " the rules" were vetoed from the 2 oldest. Lol and a few other pleasantries were said about her " rules"

4 days later it was time to go
She had put my things by the door!!!! :shock:
My "rule " #1 DO NOT touch my things!!!!
I lost my composure. HUGELY
2 weeks of living with Hitler and her rules I exploded on her. Her on me. I won't say what was exchanged.
I can say and did tell her that I would never ever be in the same place as she was.
Ever!!
I know the saying about never say never...
At this time of my life I don't have to see her ever again
Praise God
Redefined
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Re: My sister

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I continue to hash out all of the scenerios with her throughout my life.
Why why why does she do what she does.
Why why why does she trigger me so bad.
Why why why cant she just let herself kick back and relax a bit
why why the need to be so in charge of everything and everyone
why
why
why
does it bother me so much

( just posting thoughts to get them out of my brain)
Redefined
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Re: My sister

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My final day there wasn't pretty. It ended horribly with very very strong words exchanged between the two of us. I just snapped. She poked the proverbial bear 1 final time by.... Moving my purse back brace neck brace and my change of clothes close to the door.
Her reason was " I told you _____ was packing up the car."
I just couldn't keep my mouth shut. I exploded and asked her what right did she have to touch my purse ..
And off we went. ...
10 minutes later my other sister said it was time to go. (4 hrs early)
I'm glad I had the patience to try to make amends with her but ...
Some things are just beyond repair
Benjamin
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Re: My sister

Post by Benjamin »

Good to listen
Last edited by Harmony on Thu Feb 09, 2023 2:10 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Reason: edited from MT to NT due to no triggering language nor content
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