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I just joined.
I just joined, and the amazing opening post by Jonesy inspired me to actually post a "new member" message. I first saw the guidelines mention that it was recommended to do so, but the warmth of Jonesy's message to newbies persuaded me, so I thank them for that.
I am 32 years old and a victim of both childhood sexual abuse, and later, an abusive marriage. We divorced and I am now married to a loving, respectful, compassionate man and have a wonderful little girl. I have, since she was born, lost 100+ pounds and am in the best physical shape of my life. I've gone through better and worse periods of mental health; I was last in therapy in January 2018. Objectively things are great but I'm always suffering inside to a greater or lesser extent. I've lately been desperate for some peer-to-peer support but could not find any in-person support groups in my area. I may not have looked very hard; doing so is hard in and of itself. But I'm relieved to have found this website and resolve to put my very best foot forward here.
I am 32 years old and a victim of both childhood sexual abuse, and later, an abusive marriage. We divorced and I am now married to a loving, respectful, compassionate man and have a wonderful little girl. I have, since she was born, lost 100+ pounds and am in the best physical shape of my life. I've gone through better and worse periods of mental health; I was last in therapy in January 2018. Objectively things are great but I'm always suffering inside to a greater or lesser extent. I've lately been desperate for some peer-to-peer support but could not find any in-person support groups in my area. I may not have looked very hard; doing so is hard in and of itself. But I'm relieved to have found this website and resolve to put my very best foot forward here.
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Hello zlagv,
Welcome. I think you will find this a very welcoming community. I have found a lot to relate to and relief in expressing things here. I hope you do too.
Warmly,
Flifflo
Welcome. I think you will find this a very welcoming community. I have found a lot to relate to and relief in expressing things here. I hope you do too.
Warmly,
Flifflo
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Welcome to isurivive, zlagv. I'm sorry for the reasons but glad you are here.
With care,
Serenity
With care,
Serenity
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Hi zlagv
Adding my warm welcome to the mix
Adding my warm welcome to the mix
You are important
Email: jonesy@isurvive.org
Email: jonesy@isurvive.org
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Hi zlagv
What ^they^ said
Sending gentle support
What ^they^ said
Sending gentle support
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Welcome zlagv
You are among friends who can empathize with you, regardless of where you are in your journey toward recovery. After awhile you will likely find that seeking in-person support seems less daunting. We're here for you.
You are among friends who can empathize with you, regardless of where you are in your journey toward recovery. After awhile you will likely find that seeking in-person support seems less daunting. We're here for you.
"'Safe Harbor' is a state of mind... it's the place - in reality or metaphor - to which one goes in times of trouble or worry. It can be a friendship, marriage, church, garden, beach, poem, prayer, or song." -Luanne Rice
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Hi zlagv,
I'm also new here, also 32 with a little one, and also trying to navigate support groups. I definitely relate to suffering inside while appearing to have it all together. You're not alone, and I guess I'm not either.
I'm also new here, also 32 with a little one, and also trying to navigate support groups. I definitely relate to suffering inside while appearing to have it all together. You're not alone, and I guess I'm not either.
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Definitely a common theme here. I've got it all together with this mask on. Underneath it's a chaotic mess.
Be the Light in someone's night.