My Abuser's Finally Cut Me Out
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My Abuser's Finally Cut Me Out
It is official.
My abuser's finally cut me out. My family.
When my husband told me my heart dropped. It dropped further when he went on to describe how furious they are at me and why.
My husband and I are a fabulous team. Together, we got me out of this nest of abuse.
Together we got me free.
Freedom! I am finally free!
Safety! I am finally safe!
No more emails, messages, stalking, gaslighting, manipulations, lies, abuse, coerciveness, betrayal, abandonment, and gossiping. No more of all that and no more of pure cruelity and evilness in my life! No more! I am free! I am safe now in my home.
Married. Financially independant of my family. With my husbands family who welcomes me over and over again into their cozy nest. With a family of true friends who have proved through crisis how true of friends they are. How they will come and be there wholeheartedly.
Free! Finally free!
Side note: If you have been following my thread you likely know that I have a sister who is kind and not cruel like they are. I also have other sisters who move back and forth between kindness and gaslighting. Those have not cut me out yet, and I am building a foundation with them while indirectly telling them that if they gaslight me I will cut them out.
My abuser's finally cut me out. My family.
When my husband told me my heart dropped. It dropped further when he went on to describe how furious they are at me and why.
My husband and I are a fabulous team. Together, we got me out of this nest of abuse.
Together we got me free.
Freedom! I am finally free!
Safety! I am finally safe!
No more emails, messages, stalking, gaslighting, manipulations, lies, abuse, coerciveness, betrayal, abandonment, and gossiping. No more of all that and no more of pure cruelity and evilness in my life! No more! I am free! I am safe now in my home.
Married. Financially independant of my family. With my husbands family who welcomes me over and over again into their cozy nest. With a family of true friends who have proved through crisis how true of friends they are. How they will come and be there wholeheartedly.
Free! Finally free!
Side note: If you have been following my thread you likely know that I have a sister who is kind and not cruel like they are. I also have other sisters who move back and forth between kindness and gaslighting. Those have not cut me out yet, and I am building a foundation with them while indirectly telling them that if they gaslight me I will cut them out.
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Re: My Abuser's Finally Cut Me Out
I'll use my 100th post to say....
Good riddance!
May you be happy without them.
Good riddance!
May you be happy without them.
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Re: My Abuser's Finally Cut Me Out
This is that moment when I wish we had a like button here at isurvive.
Yay!
Harmony
Yay!
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Re: My Abuser's Finally Cut Me Out
Thank you. In tbis aspecte the past few days have been a dream.
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Re: My Abuser's Finally Cut Me Out
Really happy for you, growing tree
All women are beautiful. Period.
I deserve better than survival.
I deserve better than survival.
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Re: My Abuser's Finally Cut Me Out
Fantastic!
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