I'm doubting my validity
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I'm doubting my validity
This was a mistake
Last edited by Shadows on Wed May 24, 2017 12:23 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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Re: I'm doubting my validity
Shadow,
How very brave of you to post!
You are not being a drama queen and you certainly did not deserve the abuse that you experienced.
I want to write a better response, but at the moment I am in a not so great headspace.
I will come back to this in a bit when my mind quiets down.
I just wanted to say that I am here
I am listening
Want to offer support and care
-Stephie
How very brave of you to post!
You are not being a drama queen and you certainly did not deserve the abuse that you experienced.
I want to write a better response, but at the moment I am in a not so great headspace.
I will come back to this in a bit when my mind quiets down.
I just wanted to say that I am here
I am listening
Want to offer support and care
-Stephie
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Re: I'm doubting my validity
Hello Shadow,
Not a drama queen. Just someone trying to come to terms with a catalogue of traumatic events and mistreatment. I am so sorry for all the abuse you have endured.
Please take gentle care of yourself, if you can.
Warmly,
Jitterbug
Not a drama queen. Just someone trying to come to terms with a catalogue of traumatic events and mistreatment. I am so sorry for all the abuse you have endured.
Please take gentle care of yourself, if you can.
Warmly,
Jitterbug
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Re: I'm doubting my validity
Thanks Stephie and Jitterbug for being kind enough to respond.
Anyway l'm sorry to have bothered you.
Again, thank you both and take care
Anyway l'm sorry to have bothered you.
Again, thank you both and take care
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Re: I'm doubting my validity
Shadows,
Not a bother at all!
Here for you. I totally understand though. I always feel like I'm whinig and bothering people with my issues, making mountains out of mole hills... But we're not whining Shadows, we're processing and trying to heal. Jitterbug and others are good about reminding me of that.
Incredibly brave of you to confront your father. I can't manage that myself. I imagine if I did I would be dubbed a liar, but I'll probably never know cause he scares me too much for me to try.
Your neighbor sounds like such a pain! maybe start storing loose nails in your carport (sorry if that's too ornery a suggestion... it's what I would WANT to do don't know if I could though lol)
-Stephie
Not a bother at all!
Here for you. I totally understand though. I always feel like I'm whinig and bothering people with my issues, making mountains out of mole hills... But we're not whining Shadows, we're processing and trying to heal. Jitterbug and others are good about reminding me of that.
Incredibly brave of you to confront your father. I can't manage that myself. I imagine if I did I would be dubbed a liar, but I'll probably never know cause he scares me too much for me to try.
Your neighbor sounds like such a pain! maybe start storing loose nails in your carport (sorry if that's too ornery a suggestion... it's what I would WANT to do don't know if I could though lol)
-Stephie
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Re: I'm doubting my validity
As first post
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Re: I'm doubting my validity
Shadows, that situation regarding your neighbour sounds pretty stressful to be dealing with and very unfair in your response from the Police. I am just hoping that the Crime Prevention Officer can stop all of this escalating. You have enough on your plate and do not need a constant reminder of mistreatment and injustice on your doorstep.
Please, also be reassured, if you can, that honestly, no one judges you here. I can understand you feeling very vulnerable and exposed right now with us here, having shared things in your posting. That's OK & that's natural. Just know that I am here listening and supporting you, hearing how you are feeling and caring about your well being.
I really hope you make some headway with the crime prevention officer & that rather than you feeling like the criminal, (which you are not!) some solutions/resolution can be achieved. Fingers crossed!!!
Warmly,
Jitterbug
Please, also be reassured, if you can, that honestly, no one judges you here. I can understand you feeling very vulnerable and exposed right now with us here, having shared things in your posting. That's OK & that's natural. Just know that I am here listening and supporting you, hearing how you are feeling and caring about your well being.
I really hope you make some headway with the crime prevention officer & that rather than you feeling like the criminal, (which you are not!) some solutions/resolution can be achieved. Fingers crossed!!!
Warmly,
Jitterbug
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Re: I'm doubting my validity
Bye
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Reason: changed trigger from MT to NT
Reason: changed trigger from MT to NT