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brownielove
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Hi im new

Post by brownielove » Tue Mar 10, 2020 12:49 pm

I joined a while back ago, haven't came here cause I felt I was ok but im just pushing things away as usual, im so good at it its how I have survived memories to be as normal as possible which wasn't too normal, normal to me is those who have had a perfect life, loving communicative parents, no abuse no nothing bad, I have told my boyfriend he had the perfect childhood he kind of reacts like he didn't and I say did your parents love you, yes, did your parents say it, yes, did your parents pay attention to you, yes, were you molested at a very young age, no and i say well you had the perfect childhood then.

Anyway just wanted to finally say hi, im 41 never faced things, tried too but end up freaking out and pushing it all away like it never happened. I need to get rid of it but I dont know how and im scared.
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Harmony
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Re: Hi im new

Post by Harmony » Wed Mar 11, 2020 3:29 am

Welcome brownielove,

Glad you found us here. This is a safe community of healing abuse survivors. Hope you find your way around ok.

with care,
Harmony

Watercolor
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Re: Hi im new

Post by Watercolor » Wed Mar 11, 2020 4:16 am

Welcome! Glad you returned. : )

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Re: Hi im new

Post by coconuts » Wed Mar 11, 2020 5:04 am

Welcome,
This is a great place for finding people who understand and get what you are going through. Unfortunately many of us have tried the denial path. Its just not sustainable. Healing is hard but possible and worth it.
Coconuts

Jonesy
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Re: Hi im new

Post by Jonesy » Wed Mar 11, 2020 9:56 am

Hi brownielove

A very warm welcome to isurvive ;)
You are important

Email: jonesy@isurvive.org

quixote
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Re: Hi im new

Post by quixote » Sun Mar 22, 2020 11:26 pm

Brownielove,
Glad you came back. You are welcome here whether you feel okay or not.
quixote

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