Fleur's 2018 thoughts
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Fleur's 2018 thoughts
Hello everyone
Being the "twelfth day of Christmas", think time to retire my 2 year old thread
As with many a survivor, can identify with a few different aspects of abuse
Just had an earful of verbal abuse, so decided that this thread will be for present moment life
Cheers
Being the "twelfth day of Christmas", think time to retire my 2 year old thread
As with many a survivor, can identify with a few different aspects of abuse
Just had an earful of verbal abuse, so decided that this thread will be for present moment life
Cheers
Onward to a safe community for all people in which to thrive ~ gentle hugs [if okay] ~ Fleur
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Hi Fleur,
I like the new fresh space you made for yourself. Great work.
See you around.
with care,
Harmony
I like the new fresh space you made for yourself. Great work.
See you around.
with care,
Harmony
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Re: Fleur's 2018 thoughts
Fleur,
Can relate to usefulness of thread for present.
Smashing champagne bottle on imaginary ship bow!
Welcome, 2018
Can relate to usefulness of thread for present.
Smashing champagne bottle on imaginary ship bow!
Welcome, 2018
All women are beautiful. Period.
I deserve better than survival.
I deserve better than survival.
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Thanks Harmony and there -- I'm imagining said bottle on side of ship
Last night, I finally put rubbish bins out front for collection ... Stayed in PJs so won't bring them in this evening. Is amazing the difference getting recycling out of kitchen has made. Oh and Soxy had a clean tray for about an hour
Supposed to be super hot weekend, so have closed blinds, shut doors and drinks are in the fridge
Church sent out a message that bring and share lunch is NEXT week instead of tomorrow. Very pleased as I don't have anything suitable I could rustle up with so little notice
The lady behind me stopped smoking . This is great as the stale tobacco odour has gone from our shared space. I'll soon open back bedroom window. Now have her surname and phone number, hopefully enough to have just one contact for personal alarm system purposes - the company prefers 2
I recognise that my reluctance to unpack has a lot to do with su thinking, I know I have to do something about it. Hopefully when I see pdoc on Wednesday, we can brainstorm ways to get me more motivated
Sleepy wave to all
Last night, I finally put rubbish bins out front for collection ... Stayed in PJs so won't bring them in this evening. Is amazing the difference getting recycling out of kitchen has made. Oh and Soxy had a clean tray for about an hour
Supposed to be super hot weekend, so have closed blinds, shut doors and drinks are in the fridge
Church sent out a message that bring and share lunch is NEXT week instead of tomorrow. Very pleased as I don't have anything suitable I could rustle up with so little notice
The lady behind me stopped smoking . This is great as the stale tobacco odour has gone from our shared space. I'll soon open back bedroom window. Now have her surname and phone number, hopefully enough to have just one contact for personal alarm system purposes - the company prefers 2
I recognise that my reluctance to unpack has a lot to do with su thinking, I know I have to do something about it. Hopefully when I see pdoc on Wednesday, we can brainstorm ways to get me more motivated
Sleepy wave to all
Onward to a safe community for all people in which to thrive ~ gentle hugs [if okay] ~ Fleur
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hi fleur,
so happy to see your new thread, sorry for the abuse that lead to it.
i strongly relate to the SU thinking, i am so sorry you are going through that. I hope pdoc can help.
hope you got a good sleep and your weekend is good.
much caring,
recover xo
so happy to see your new thread, sorry for the abuse that lead to it.
i strongly relate to the SU thinking, i am so sorry you are going through that. I hope pdoc can help.
hope you got a good sleep and your weekend is good.
much caring,
recover xo
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Fleur,
Following along on your new thread. Wishing you well in the coming days.
iwt
Following along on your new thread. Wishing you well in the coming days.
iwt
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Fleur,
Clearing Things at home always helps. Sometimes just the boring chores can be uplifting.
Good that neighbor quit smoking and you get better air to breathe.
Thinking of you, dear Fleur.
Clearing Things at home always helps. Sometimes just the boring chores can be uplifting.
Good that neighbor quit smoking and you get better air to breathe.
Thinking of you, dear Fleur.
All women are beautiful. Period.
I deserve better than survival.
I deserve better than survival.
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Fleur
Well done on new thread
I sit with you chilling out
Having a coffee
You are a strong person
You are supportive and compassionate
Thinking of you
Fight4me
Well done on new thread
I sit with you chilling out
Having a coffee
You are a strong person
You are supportive and compassionate
Thinking of you
Fight4me
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Thank you there, recover, iwillthrive, fight4me .... Very happy to read from each of you
Starting weekend very quietly. Awoke about 8 to the research alarm, then back to dreamland for another 2+ hours. Soxy's chosen to curl up along my stomach, well within touching range. He is so soft and warm, with few demands - food, water, pats
Cheers
Starting weekend very quietly. Awoke about 8 to the research alarm, then back to dreamland for another 2+ hours. Soxy's chosen to curl up along my stomach, well within touching range. He is so soft and warm, with few demands - food, water, pats
Cheers
Onward to a safe community for all people in which to thrive ~ gentle hugs [if okay] ~ Fleur
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Fleur,
It gets in triple digit temperatures here where I live, too. I get the closed blinds/don't move approach. It helps.
I have a cat-dog. She's a long-haired chihuahua-terrier named Sandy. She would lay on my lap forever, if she could. I love kitties too. How they put their paws on your hand when they want something or to be petted. Purring is awesome. Did you know that big cats, like cougars, purr too?
I can't drink champagne, but I'll toast to the new year and new thread with some sparkling cider.
~wolfspirit
It gets in triple digit temperatures here where I live, too. I get the closed blinds/don't move approach. It helps.
I have a cat-dog. She's a long-haired chihuahua-terrier named Sandy. She would lay on my lap forever, if she could. I love kitties too. How they put their paws on your hand when they want something or to be petted. Purring is awesome. Did you know that big cats, like cougars, purr too?
I can't drink champagne, but I'll toast to the new year and new thread with some sparkling cider.
~wolfspirit
Wounds are where the light enters you.
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Rumi