"Between stimulus and response there is a gap --where you
can CHOOSE to behave as your REAL SELF,or your conditioned
self."
Start with small things and work up.
God Bless,
jimscarlet
The REAL you!
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Re: The REAL you!
Hello JimScarlet
This was the topic of my session this week
That I have a choice to respond, walk away, simply smile without a word
Reacting can get me into bother
May all be well with you this weekend
This was the topic of my session this week
That I have a choice to respond, walk away, simply smile without a word
Reacting can get me into bother
May all be well with you this weekend
Onward to a safe community for all people in which to thrive ~ gentle hugs [if okay] ~ Fleur
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Jim scarlet,
It's good to read your words here.
Well worth considering. Thanks.
It's good to read your words here.
Well worth considering. Thanks.
All women are beautiful. Period.
I deserve better than survival.
I deserve better than survival.
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My T describes this as the space between the itch and the scratch. It can be a very helpful tool. Thank you for sharing.
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Dear jimscarlet,
I love that idea of the "moment" between. I like to take a breath in that moment when I can remember. It helps me be more human instead of just responding immediately, unconsciously and/or without consideration. Not easy! I am still learning this. Thanks for the reminder.
with care,
Harmony
I love that idea of the "moment" between. I like to take a breath in that moment when I can remember. It helps me be more human instead of just responding immediately, unconsciously and/or without consideration. Not easy! I am still learning this. Thanks for the reminder.
with care,
Harmony
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I really like this!
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I l♥ve this jimscarlet.
FB Delicately changing my name because I don't need to fight anymore.
Be true to yourself
Never sacrifice who you are just because someone has a problem with it
Be true to yourself
Never sacrifice who you are just because someone has a problem with it